Heterarchy: The Ecology of Cooperation in Polyamory

Beyond hierarchy and toward more grounded egalitarian love

Oct 7

7

2

September 2025

Navigating Mono/Poly Relationships: Love Across Different Orientations

What it takes to balance safety and freedom, build trust without sameness, and honor both partners’ truths

Sep 30 • 

Aria Diana

13

2

Peace Is Possible: Spirituality, Somatics & Polyamory

A podcast interview about choosing how we love, tending the nervous system, and why healing isn’t a one-and-done

Sep 23 • 

Aria Diana

6

The Hidden Weight of the Hinge: Why Balance Starts at the Center

Being the connecting point in a non-monogamous “V” means holding complexity with clarity, so the whole ecosystem feels steadier

Sep 16 • 

Aria Diana

6

2

Beyond Repair: Discernment, Boundaries, and Knowing When Not to Rebuild

Not every rupture calls for rebuilding. Sometimes integrity lies in release. A deeper continuation of last week’s essay on repair.

Sep 9 • 

Aria Diana

8

From Rupture to Repair: Turning Repetitive Conflict Into Connection

Understanding the rupture–resentment loop and creating a culture of repair in non-monogamy

Sep 2 • 

Aria Diana

17

1

August 2025

The Ghost of Coverture: Why So Many Women Still Don’t Know What They Want

From our bedrooms to the ballot box, the old blueprint of erasure shows up in subtle ways—until we see it, name it, and reclaim our desires.

Aug 26 • 

Aria Diana

9

Beyond Romance: Getting Needs Met Through Friendship & Community

(And Why That’s Not a Consolation Prize)

Aug 19 • 

Aria Diana

10

When Dysregulation Is Contagious: How Our Activation Feeds Each Other

A trauma-informed framework for navigating relational triggers in non-monogamy using the 4-part spiral practice

Aug 12 • 

Aria Diana

13

It's Not Always Jealousy: Learning from Envy in Polyamory

Why emotional asymmetry isn’t a flaw—and what it can teach us about what we’re truly longing for

Aug 5 • 

Aria Diana

18

2

July 2025

The Invisible Burden of Being the “Secure” Partner

When one partner’s pain takes up all the space, the other’s needs start to quietly disappear

Jul 29 • 

Aria Diana

54

5

More Than One: Rethinking Belonging in Non-Monogamy

Exploring how to feel chosen, secure, and deeply met—without needing to be the only one

Jul 22 • 

Aria Diana

20