Diverging Desires: When Partners Want Different Styles of Non-Monogamy

What to do when your flavor of non-monogamy doesn't exactly align with your partner's approach

Today’s article dives into a reader’s question about how to balance different approaches to non-monogamy in a single relationship, but first, I wanted to let you know that discounted early bird enrollment for the spring cohort of my group coaching program Nourishing Non-Monogamy opens Monday, February 3!

We’ll gather online as a small group on Wednesday evenings from 4:30-6:30pm PST / 7:30-9:30pm EST between March 12 - June 4, 2025 (skipping April 23).

Curious to hear more? Check out all of the program details at the link above and book a call if you want to discuss to see if it’s a good fit:

P.S. I’m also hosting a FREE online workshop on February 5th: From Overwhelm to Ease: Somatic Strategies for Thriving in Non-Monogamy 💛

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How do you harmonize when newly non-monogamous partners want wildly different flavors of non-monogamy—like one craving the thrill of swinging as a couple while the other dreams of kitchen table poly and falling in love?

- Different Flavors Seeking Harmony